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#GoodLuckToxi

5/18/2018

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​I tend to stay friends or at least connected via social media with guys I have dated.

It started out slow.  First, #ICU (discussed in a previous blog post) announced he eloped and got married.  

Then another one entered a long term relationship. Then another.

Another marriage.  Another relationship.  Another relationship.  Another marriage.  You get the point.
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Each time I mention to Sierra how so and so got married, relationship, kid on the way, etc.  "Hey, you're like the movie Good Luck, Chuck"!

​It all culminated recently.  I went on one date with a teacher.  It didn't really progress from there.  Three weeks later, photos from his wedding popped up on my Instagram feed.  Three weeks!  Despite stating he was single and had not been in a relationship for a year, bam! 
Married out of nowhere.  


I realized Sierra was right (Oh yeah, enjoy my acknowledgement this one time, Sierra!) 

​Good Luck, Chuck is a movie about a guy who dates women.  After they go on a date, the women end up marrying the next guy they meet.  This is totally me!!!  I'm Good Luck, Toxi!!!

I feel like I should be using this to my advantage.  Can I place an ad offering my services on Craigslist?  Add it to my dating profile?  Lead every conversation with "Hey, want to see a cool trick?" or "Do you keep a tuxedo on hand for special occasions?"  There must be a way to monetize these services!!!

Although it's weird to think of myself as a stepping stone for others, I completely get it.  There are people we are meant to be with and obviously I was not it for these guys nor were they it for me.  The reality is that anyone actively dating is seeking some type of connection (whether it's FWB, dating, long term or marriage) so it's only natural that relationships will form.
​I just wish they would invite me to the wedding so I can get some cake out of this deal!!!

Life Lesson #13- For the sake of future wedding cake, remain friends with your exes!
xo T

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Kathryn Birchfire
5/22/2018 03:02:11 am

The way I see it, you fix broken men and they finally get their act together. They give off pheromones of "Im fixed" and desperate woman claim them. You are desperate so you cant pick up on the pheromone.

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Toxi
11/29/2018 01:59:49 pm

I just realized I responded to this post on the show but not on the actual blog. I actually don't see it that way. If anything, I'm usually the "broken" one and I'm not fixing anyone nor do I look to be fixed. I tend to date or friend really great guys so that fact that other women can recognize it doesn't surprise me. The frequency, however, does. I live in a betting town and this is one worth throwing some down on. =)

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    I woke up one day and the reality of being almost 40 and newly single hit me.  I had been married over 15 years and was definitely out of practice (Unfortunately my fantasies of a Mark Paul Gosselaar fling didn't count as dating).  The thought of dating was both scary and exciting.  My ultimate goal was to meet new people and not end up being the subject of a Lifetime movie about encountering your killer on Craigslist.  At this moment my personal life lessons were born. 

    Life Lesson #1- Be cautious enough to avoid becoming the subject of a Lifetime movie.  

    Although this lesson is learning in progress, I've done pretty well thus far.

    I'm super cautious, overly to an extent.  But I'll discuss it throughout this blog.  Despite my hesitations, I have enjoyed dating.  I'm typically a private person when it comes to this subject.  I speak in generalities on our show unless I have a guy's permission prior.  This has made things interesting.  I find there are two very defined sides and no middle ground.  There are guys who ABSOLUTELY do not want to be referred to on the show and others who ask immediately if I plan to talk about them.  I'm pretty sure this blog will not alleviate any concerns for those who have who are worried.  I will continue, as always, to keep names private.

    So I have these great dating stories which I don't share on air and now it's time. 

    Life Lesson #2- The best stories need to be shared.  
    ​Let people learn from you and take the opportunity to learn from yourself.  Share in your joy, share in your pain...just share.

    This philosophy was how our show came about.  The original hosts had some amazing dating stories.  When I first joined I was the married one.  My fun stories involved jaeger, my ex leaving the toilet seat up and failed threesomes.

    Now is my chance to catch up.  Enjoy!

    xo T

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